Thinking about re-entering the dating world? Let’s talk about it!

Whether you’re recovering from heartbreak, low self-esteem, or even trauma and abuse, it can feel daunting to put yourself out there again.

Take a deep breath. We’re in this together! Perhaps like you, I once had to relearn how to love and be loved again. I had to rewrite my definition of love and rediscover what a healthy relationship looked like.

Through tragedy and pain, I dove into my spiritual journey. And I was awakened by the truth –– I was healed by the answers of the Universe and my strengthened connection with myself.

I learned to love me again and learned to love again.

And now, I’m here to share this journey with you. To guide you along your path to re-enter the dating world and manifest your dream partner in 2022.

True, unconditional love is coming your way –– I can feel it. Can you? Here are 5 signs that you’re ready to re-enter the dating world.

Signs You’re Ready to Re-enter the Dating World

1. You feel comfortable alone – but you want more.

If you’re uncomfortable sitting with your own thoughts or singleness, use this time to get to know you –– not your next dating app match. Explore what you like to do, what you want your life to look like, and what it means to be you as an individual, not just as a part of a couple.

2. You’re ready to love.

You’re ready to give your love, not just be loved. You don’t want to be selfish, controlling, or powerful with it. You want to freely give your unique love to someone worthy of it.

3. You’re ready to be loved.

You’re not just ready to give –– you’re ready to receive. You want to open up your heart and are in a place where you can accept and appreciate love. You have space for it.

4. You’re ready to put in the work.

Love isn’t something that just happens to us. Infatuation can. Crushes and lust can. But true, lasting love is a choice. It’s a continual effort, partnership, and agreement to create something more than yourselves. A pact to be vulnerable, committed, and there for each other as you grow toward your goals.

5. You believe you can manifest your dream partner.

You believe in “life after love.” You believe love is waiting for you around the corner. You know it’s coming, and you can’t wait to receive it! Yes, you can manifest your dream partner (we do this in my manifesting love course!)

Benefits of Preparing to Re-enter the Dating World

If you don’t check all of those boxes, that’s okay.

You can prepare to be comfortable alone, ready to love and be loved, put in the work, and believe it can happen. It is possible! Work on yourself today, and your future self will thank you. You find your dream partner by aligning your life now with who and where you want to be tomorrow.

When you prepare for dating again, you are:

● More likely to keep going, even when dating is frustrating.
● More sure what you want and ready to go for it.
● More gentle with yourself, your emotions, and your energy.
● More focused on your goals and the ‘bigger picture.’
● More trusting and confident in the Universe’s plan.
● More likely to attract the kind of person you want and deserve.

With that, here are three things you need to do to prepare to start dating again.

3 Things You Need to Do Before Dating Again

1. Get to know YOU.

Date yourself first! Ask yourself all of the questions you’d ask on the first, second, third dates and so on. Get serious with yourself.

Figure out what you want your life to look like before you figure it out with someone else. There will be compromise, but that’s the beauty of it. Getting clear on what you want now will help you manifest your dream partner. This is the very first step in my manifesting love course: Loving and Being Loved!

2. Look for the pattern.

This goes along with the last. Once you get to know yourself, you can know who you want to be with… and who you don’t want to be with.

A self-aware queen or king knows what they want and who they want to build their kingdom with. This is how we can abandon toxic cycles of always falling for the wrong person at the wrong time.

3. Do the inner work.

Become the partner you want to be for someone else! You don’t have to be perfect today, tomorrow, or ever. But it’s in the pursuit of seeking and growing that we attract the kind of partner doing the same. Do the inner work –– the self-love healing, self-discovery, and spiritual manifestation –– and watch your outer world transform.

How to Manifest Your Dream Partner

Getting to know YOU, looking for patterns, and doing the inner work is exactly what we’ll accomplish together in my new manifesting love course, Loving and Being Loved! It’s for the radiant individual ready to prepare to start dating again.

But more than that, it’s for those who are ready to find their dream partner. To date with the intention to create a love that propels their goals, ignites their passions, and supports their growth.

Join My Manifesting Love Course: Loving and Being Loved!

Yes, you can manifest your dream partner. You can manifest your dream life. I know this because I already have. It all starts with clarifying your vision and bringing it to reality –– which we’ll get started on together on Day 1 of my manifesting love course, Loving and Being Loved.

You deserve to love and be loved. Take the leap toward love with our Love Academy community. Love is on its way to you!

Love always,

Christy